Communication
There may be times when your loved one does things that don't seem to make sense. Or, they may behave in ways that upset you. When this happens, don't forget that your loved one is not acting this way on purpose.
Talking with your loved one may be hard since Alzheimer's disease can affect speech and language. Your loved one might have a hard time telling you what is wrong. It might also be hard for them to understand what you mean. When you are talking with a loved one who has Alzheimer's, these tips may help:
- Try to choose simple words and use short sentences.
- Use a calm tone of voice.
- Don't "baby talk."
- Reduce noise and other distractions to help your loved one focus.
- Try not to interrupt.
- Avoid criticizing or arguing.
- Be sure to listen when your loved one talks.
- Don't get too close or crowd your loved one when talking.
- If your loved one gets confused, take a break. Talk about something else if it helps.
- Try to choose a time of the day when your loved one tends to be calm and receptive for your talk.
- When you call your loved one on the phone, be sure to say your name clearly.