How to talk to your family and loved one about Alzheimer's.
You might find that some family members or your loved one resist the idea that the changes you're seeing could be related to Alzheimer's.
However, if you're seeing signs, it's best to talk about them sooner rather than later. Getting a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease, the most common form of dementia, can be empowering, and can help you make informed decisions about treatment.
- Calmly tell your family that you are seeing changes that you think warrant a doctor visit and ask if they would like to join you.
- If you have kept a log of symptoms, share it with them.
- You should complete the Seeing Signs? Guide. Taking family members through the results is a good way to get the conversation started.
- Explain that starting a loved one on Alzheimer's medication early means you can slow the progression of symptoms sooner and may be able to help your loved one remain functional longer.
Explain the benefits of early diagnosis and treatment
Many people feel anxious about a diagnosis. Yet early and accurate diagnosis has many benefits.
- There is more time to plan for the future.
- It may eliminate fear of the unknown, and may reduce anxiety for patients and caregivers.
- Starting Alzheimer's treatment earlier means you can start slowing symptoms sooner.
Approaching the conversation with your loved one
- Figure out who would be best to talk to your loved one
- Let your loved one know you're worried and ask if everything is okay
- Reassure them you want to help if they'll let you
- Tell them about the symptoms you're seeing
- Take your loved one through the Seeing Signs? Guide. Have them perform the Clock Draw Test and explain the Symptom Screener.
- Ask them if it would be okay if you went to see the doctor together
Three important things to remember when talking to your loved one
- Be aware of the language you use. Remember that your loved one may be concerned about losing their independence. Reassure them that you want them to remain independent for as long as possible.
- Try to use an adult tone of voice when speaking to your loved one; avoid baby talk.
- It's important to help your loved one to not feel ashamed. The symptoms they're experiencing could be caused by the disease and aren't their fault.
Asking your loved one to take the Clock Draw Test
Drawing a clock by hand is a screening tool that can help the doctor tell the difference between normal aging and Alzheimer's. The patient is asked to draw a clock with the hands at 8:20. This requires a person to use many different skills and abilities.
Watch this instructional video to see how it works. Then, ask your loved one if they would be willing to take the test. Bring the results to the next doctor visit and make sure to share them with your family.















